You've heard it before. "Time will heal your wounds." People will tell you that it will get better. It just takes time. You know something? It's absolutely true.
Heartbreak can be one of the most gut wrenching emotions you can go through. The man you loved, the one you wanted to take care of, have his kids, take care of his parents, cook for, etc. etc. .... he didn't want you or he was a jerk and wouldn't respect you so you had to let him go. Heartbreak can actually physically hurt. I just remember having an ache in my stomach for weeks with all my heartbreaks.
What I have learned is that you will get over it. They question is when. The longer you hang on, the longer it will take. You have the choice to move on right away. Or you can do what many do and hope things will change. Maybe he'll miss me and come back. Maybe he'll realize how much I loved him. Didn't Prince William come running back for Kate after they broke up?
You have to evaluate whether this person did anything to disrespect you or show that he didn't care. If he did, you are only wasting precious time hanging on. The internet will not have an answer. No blog or dating expert or book, will give you the answer you want to hear. So don't waste hours, days, week, and even years, waiting. Just don't do it. There is bliss out there and it doesn't involve this man. Lament and sadness just will make happiness come even later.
If you must lament, then give it 30 days max. Even that is a lot. I think 2 weeks is better.
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